When do you go from dating to boyfriend girlfriend
If you continue to give a man girlfriend benefits (some would say wife benefits) without any commitment then many men are likely going to take it.
His decision to go along with this should not be confused with some secret desire you hope he has to one day be with you.
He told you he doesn’t want a relationship so why are you still essentially giving him one?
I know many women may be saying “why can’t men just be more honest about what they want”.
He will be prepared to make you his official girlfriend and treat you as such.
He will be receptive to your feelings and just as concerned about your desires as he is about his own.
Technically the man in a situation like this has been honest.
He told you from the get go he didn’t want a relationship.
You hang out, talk, and do things that a girlfriend does which leaves you wondering where his head is really at.
You can continue to give and give and give yet still find yourself many months later with no relationship and possibly with him moving while making some other women his girlfriend.
If he hasn’t made you his girlfriend after a good amount of time what makes you think that continuing to give him benefits is going to make him change his mind any month now.
He is not prepared to be obligated to you or to commit to you.
He wants to be able to deflect your questioning of his actions and his whereabouts.
For some of you it’s cool but for many of you a relationship is what you truly desire.